I know this is a personal question..but as a woman..how many times a week should we be having sex? My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and it seems he never wants to have sex. It's really starting to make me feel unwanted. Sometimes, I have to use the vibrator to enjoy sex. We probably have sex 1-2 times a week. I'm dying here!!! I just don't get it. I know he has a lot of stress in his life. But sex is an important part of a relationship, I really hope this is a phase cuz I cannot live my life on sex once a week!!! That sounds mean but...what do you think?? Does anyone run into this prob?